"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Loneliness is bad for your health

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According to this MarketWatch article, loneliness is just as dangerous as obesity.

Mentioned in the article:

- Over 42 million Americans over the age of 45 suffer from chronic loneliness (AARP)
- 1/4 of population lives alone and more than half are unmarried (U.S. Census Bureau)
- Lonely people less likely to have close relationships, manage daily stress, maintain their health or sleep well
- Experience greater anxiety
- Older people may face more loneliness due to loss of family, friends, or a job

The antidote to loneliness is activity.

Source: http://www.marketwatch.com/story/why-loneliness-is-more-dangerous-than-obesity-2017-08-10
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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According to Ice Cube, so are Big D!cks in Yo mouth, lol...
 

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Define "loneliness". I don't believe being alone equals loneliness. I think it's closer to feeling neglected. You don't feel lonely if you don't expect or want to have company in the first place.

IMO this is just another attempt to force single people into marriage. Yet, most married guys I know are not really enjoying it and complain about a lot.
 
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