"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This girl has called me NINE times in the past hour or so...I cba to pick up. Im not a phone person. Maybe a sign of interest? And she keeps asking me to txt her...



Also, just set up a date. Going to cinema with this girl. It's our first date, as such. Should I make a move on her or not. Damn, I feel AFC lol.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just met this girl, she looks smoking hot. She called me first, then called me again today, and then started texting me after she called.

I obliged, and returned her calls and texts, but what is up with this behavior?
 
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SilverSonnet said:
No idea. We met eachotehr on MSN about a year ago, I deleted her(wehardly talked.) and she started talking to me about a wk ago
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What do you mean you have no idea? They want some d!ck. I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game, you don't need to chase. They will chase you.

This is how I am going to operate from now on. It's so much less stressful and better.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lol, it was so long ago I dont remember, it was over MSN
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You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
 
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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
 
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You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
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Yes attract women is better that chasing/seducing them. Women love chasing men but don't like being chased.
 
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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
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Yep this is so true. I have been calling her back when she calls me, and I have been returning her texts. But that's it. I haven't initiated any contact and I think it's driving her mad.

For example, when she found out I have MSN, she was logged into MSN 24/7. But I never went on.

Then when she found out I was on Yahoo, she stayed logged into that 24/7 and I finally chatted with her tonight.

And she is still logged in... LOL.. like I'm going to get needy and message her or something. I have her blocked so she can't even see I'm online.

I'm going to make her text my phone or call me to get my attention.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game you don't need to chase. They will chase you.
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And they can remember it for years.
 
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And they can remember it for years.
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Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
 
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Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
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What you're subconciously telling the female is I'm higher value than you so if you want me impress me and if you impress me you'll get rewarded but if you don't behave I'll easily walk away. :up:
 
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