"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This girl has called me NINE times in the past hour or so...I cba to pick up. Im not a phone person. Maybe a sign of interest? And she keeps asking me to txt her...



Also, just set up a date. Going to cinema with this girl. It's our first date, as such. Should I make a move on her or not. Damn, I feel AFC lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I just met this girl, she looks smoking hot. She called me first, then called me again today, and then started texting me after she called.

I obliged, and returned her calls and texts, but what is up with this behavior?
 
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SilverSonnet said:
No idea. We met eachotehr on MSN about a year ago, I deleted her(wehardly talked.) and she started talking to me about a wk ago
What do you mean you have no idea? They want some d!ck. I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game, you don't need to chase. They will chase you.

This is how I am going to operate from now on. It's so much less stressful and better.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SilverSonnet said:
Lol, it was so long ago I dont remember, it was over MSN

You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
 

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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
 

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You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
Yes attract women is better that chasing/seducing them. Women love chasing men but don't like being chased.
 
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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
Yep this is so true. I have been calling her back when she calls me, and I have been returning her texts. But that's it. I haven't initiated any contact and I think it's driving her mad.

For example, when she found out I have MSN, she was logged into MSN 24/7. But I never went on.

Then when she found out I was on Yahoo, she stayed logged into that 24/7 and I finally chatted with her tonight.

And she is still logged in... LOL.. like I'm going to get needy and message her or something. I have her blocked so she can't even see I'm online.

I'm going to make her text my phone or call me to get my attention.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game you don't need to chase. They will chase you.
And they can remember it for years.
 
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SinJester said:
And they can remember it for years.

Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
What you're subconciously telling the female is I'm higher value than you so if you want me impress me and if you impress me you'll get rewarded but if you don't behave I'll easily walk away. :up:
 
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