"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This girl has called me NINE times in the past hour or so...I cba to pick up. Im not a phone person. Maybe a sign of interest? And she keeps asking me to txt her...



Also, just set up a date. Going to cinema with this girl. It's our first date, as such. Should I make a move on her or not. Damn, I feel AFC lol.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I just met this girl, she looks smoking hot. She called me first, then called me again today, and then started texting me after she called.

I obliged, and returned her calls and texts, but what is up with this behavior?
 
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SilverSonnet said:
No idea. We met eachotehr on MSN about a year ago, I deleted her(wehardly talked.) and she started talking to me about a wk ago
What do you mean you have no idea? They want some d!ck. I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game, you don't need to chase. They will chase you.

This is how I am going to operate from now on. It's so much less stressful and better.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SilverSonnet said:
Lol, it was so long ago I dont remember, it was over MSN

You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
 

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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
Yes attract women is better that chasing/seducing them. Women love chasing men but don't like being chased.
 
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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
Yep this is so true. I have been calling her back when she calls me, and I have been returning her texts. But that's it. I haven't initiated any contact and I think it's driving her mad.

For example, when she found out I have MSN, she was logged into MSN 24/7. But I never went on.

Then when she found out I was on Yahoo, she stayed logged into that 24/7 and I finally chatted with her tonight.

And she is still logged in... LOL.. like I'm going to get needy and message her or something. I have her blocked so she can't even see I'm online.

I'm going to make her text my phone or call me to get my attention.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game you don't need to chase. They will chase you.
And they can remember it for years.
 
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SinJester said:
And they can remember it for years.

Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
What you're subconciously telling the female is I'm higher value than you so if you want me impress me and if you impress me you'll get rewarded but if you don't behave I'll easily walk away. :up:
 
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