"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girl has called me NINE times in the past hour or so...I cba to pick up. Im not a phone person. Maybe a sign of interest? And she keeps asking me to txt her...



Also, just set up a date. Going to cinema with this girl. It's our first date, as such. Should I make a move on her or not. Damn, I feel AFC lol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just met this girl, she looks smoking hot. She called me first, then called me again today, and then started texting me after she called.

I obliged, and returned her calls and texts, but what is up with this behavior?
 
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SilverSonnet said:
No idea. We met eachotehr on MSN about a year ago, I deleted her(wehardly talked.) and she started talking to me about a wk ago
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What do you mean you have no idea? They want some d!ck. I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game, you don't need to chase. They will chase you.

This is how I am going to operate from now on. It's so much less stressful and better.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lol, it was so long ago I dont remember, it was over MSN
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You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
 
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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
 
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You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
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Yes attract women is better that chasing/seducing them. Women love chasing men but don't like being chased.
 
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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
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Yep this is so true. I have been calling her back when she calls me, and I have been returning her texts. But that's it. I haven't initiated any contact and I think it's driving her mad.

For example, when she found out I have MSN, she was logged into MSN 24/7. But I never went on.

Then when she found out I was on Yahoo, she stayed logged into that 24/7 and I finally chatted with her tonight.

And she is still logged in... LOL.. like I'm going to get needy and message her or something. I have her blocked so she can't even see I'm online.

I'm going to make her text my phone or call me to get my attention.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game you don't need to chase. They will chase you.
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And they can remember it for years.
 
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And they can remember it for years.
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Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
 
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Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
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What you're subconciously telling the female is I'm higher value than you so if you want me impress me and if you impress me you'll get rewarded but if you don't behave I'll easily walk away. :up:
 
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