"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This girl has called me NINE times in the past hour or so...I cba to pick up. Im not a phone person. Maybe a sign of interest? And she keeps asking me to txt her...



Also, just set up a date. Going to cinema with this girl. It's our first date, as such. Should I make a move on her or not. Damn, I feel AFC lol.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I just met this girl, she looks smoking hot. She called me first, then called me again today, and then started texting me after she called.

I obliged, and returned her calls and texts, but what is up with this behavior?
 
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SilverSonnet said:
No idea. We met eachotehr on MSN about a year ago, I deleted her(wehardly talked.) and she started talking to me about a wk ago
What do you mean you have no idea? They want some d!ck. I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game, you don't need to chase. They will chase you.

This is how I am going to operate from now on. It's so much less stressful and better.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SilverSonnet said:
Lol, it was so long ago I dont remember, it was over MSN

You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
 

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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
 

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You just said she called you 9 times in the last hour. You got her chasing you and that's what is important.

What is better than going out, doing your thing, and having the girls chase YOU?

Nothing is better then that, and that's how I'm going to operate from now on.
Yes attract women is better that chasing/seducing them. Women love chasing men but don't like being chased.
 
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I'm in contact with a date lately. She's constantly texting me and wanting me to call her. I am texting back but every once in a while - even if I'm bored - I'll not text back for a good while.

Also use the push pull method and act like you like them but don't need them! If they sense you're becoming needy then they'll drop you in a flash no matter what they say and you'll be left wondering WTF just happened.
Yep this is so true. I have been calling her back when she calls me, and I have been returning her texts. But that's it. I haven't initiated any contact and I think it's driving her mad.

For example, when she found out I have MSN, she was logged into MSN 24/7. But I never went on.

Then when she found out I was on Yahoo, she stayed logged into that 24/7 and I finally chatted with her tonight.

And she is still logged in... LOL.. like I'm going to get needy and message her or something. I have her blocked so she can't even see I'm online.

I'm going to make her text my phone or call me to get my attention.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I have noticed that when you spark a girls interest with good game you don't need to chase. They will chase you.
And they can remember it for years.
 
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SinJester said:
And they can remember it for years.

Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
 

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My Name is Nobody said:
Just like an AFC remembers things for years.....hmmm I think we have a winner!

Make the female become AFC, that's how you win in this game.
What you're subconciously telling the female is I'm higher value than you so if you want me impress me and if you impress me you'll get rewarded but if you don't behave I'll easily walk away. :up:
 
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