"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when you reach your 10 limit, come on over to the chatroom
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this sunday nights topic : mother's day edition
sexual selection is a game of economics
chat leader : redpill
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rollo Tomassi

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I wish I could participate, but it's always scheduled when I'm sleeping.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
I wish I could participate, but it's always scheduled when I'm sleeping.
ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
 

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penkitten said:
ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
Dammit...ive had to register for this chatroom like 3 times already...take that registration crap off PK!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ken785 said:
Dammit...ive had to register for this chatroom like 3 times already...take that registration crap off PK!!!
you should only have to do it once ken, then never again.
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite and see if that works
 

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penkitten said:
ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
Summer is pretty much over now - let's get them back started again. I'd love to join when there is a good turn out!
 

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Axcell said:
Summer is pretty much over now - let's get them back started again. I'd love to join when there is a good turn out!
we are trying to see what we can do.
we are thinking about a week night for this.
 

AAAgent

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Is this thing still alive?
 

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Lets make it a ventrillo / teamspeak chat this time, that'll be more fun!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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there would be too many people speaking at once.
 

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Wow I hadn't realized it's been so long since we had this thing going or since I dropped in for a chat
 

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yah it was strong for a long while, then slowly people started dropping out because of work or plans or just wanting to veg out.
some folks started seeing people and didn't have time to chat anymore.

but i go clean it out all the time and it seems that some folks still go in and out daily... trick is catching someone on at the same time you are.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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