penkitten
Master Don Juan
when you reach your 10 limit, come on over to the chatroom
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Live SoSuave Chat
- Thread starter RedPill
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
I'm sick and feel like chatting.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
this sunday nights topic : mother's day edition
sexual selection is a game of economics
chat leader : redpill
sexual selection is a game of economics
chat leader : redpill
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
- Messages
- 437
- Reaction score
- 41
start time please?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
its sunday night chat night!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonights topic: bringing positive things into our lives
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
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- 437
- Reaction score
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bump
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I wish I could participate, but it's always scheduled when I'm sleeping.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.Rollo Tomassi said:
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Dammit...ive had to register for this chatroom like 3 times already...take that registration crap off PK!!!penkitten said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should only have to do it once ken, then never again.Ken785 said:
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite and see if that works
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we are trying to see what we can do.Axcell said:
we are thinking about a week night for this.
Dedication
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 26, 2008
- Messages
- 321
- Reaction score
- 11
Lets make it a ventrillo / teamspeak chat this time, that'll be more fun!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yah it was strong for a long while, then slowly people started dropping out because of work or plans or just wanting to veg out.
some folks started seeing people and didn't have time to chat anymore.
but i go clean it out all the time and it seems that some folks still go in and out daily... trick is catching someone on at the same time you are.
some folks started seeing people and didn't have time to chat anymore.
but i go clean it out all the time and it seems that some folks still go in and out daily... trick is catching someone on at the same time you are.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ok chat is up
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.