penkitten
Master Don Juan
when you reach your 10 limit, come on over to the chatroom
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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- Thread starter RedPill
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
I'm sick and feel like chatting.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
this sunday nights topic : mother's day edition
sexual selection is a game of economics
chat leader : redpill
sexual selection is a game of economics
chat leader : redpill
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
- Messages
- 437
- Reaction score
- 41
start time please?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
its sunday night chat night!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonights topic: bringing positive things into our lives
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
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- 437
- Reaction score
- 41
bump
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I wish I could participate, but it's always scheduled when I'm sleeping.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.Rollo Tomassi said:
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Dammit...ive had to register for this chatroom like 3 times already...take that registration crap off PK!!!penkitten said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should only have to do it once ken, then never again.Ken785 said:
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite and see if that works
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we are trying to see what we can do.Axcell said:
we are thinking about a week night for this.
Dedication
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 26, 2008
- Messages
- 321
- Reaction score
- 11
Lets make it a ventrillo / teamspeak chat this time, that'll be more fun!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yah it was strong for a long while, then slowly people started dropping out because of work or plans or just wanting to veg out.
some folks started seeing people and didn't have time to chat anymore.
but i go clean it out all the time and it seems that some folks still go in and out daily... trick is catching someone on at the same time you are.
some folks started seeing people and didn't have time to chat anymore.
but i go clean it out all the time and it seems that some folks still go in and out daily... trick is catching someone on at the same time you are.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ok chat is up
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.