penkitten
Master Don Juan
when you reach your 10 limit, come on over to the chatroom
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Magma
Senior Don Juan
I'm sick and feel like chatting.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
this sunday nights topic : mother's day edition
sexual selection is a game of economics
chat leader : redpill
sexual selection is a game of economics
chat leader : redpill
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
- Messages
- 437
- Reaction score
- 41
start time please?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
its sunday night chat night!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonights topic: bringing positive things into our lives
LovelyLady
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jun 7, 2007
- Messages
- 437
- Reaction score
- 41
bump
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
I wish I could participate, but it's always scheduled when I'm sleeping.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.Rollo Tomassi said:
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Dammit...ive had to register for this chatroom like 3 times already...take that registration crap off PK!!!penkitten said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you should only have to do it once ken, then never again.Ken785 said:
pm me your email addy and i will send you an invite and see if that works
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we are trying to see what we can do.Axcell said:
we are thinking about a week night for this.
Dedication
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 26, 2008
- Messages
- 321
- Reaction score
- 11
Lets make it a ventrillo / teamspeak chat this time, that'll be more fun!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yah it was strong for a long while, then slowly people started dropping out because of work or plans or just wanting to veg out.
some folks started seeing people and didn't have time to chat anymore.
but i go clean it out all the time and it seems that some folks still go in and out daily... trick is catching someone on at the same time you are.
some folks started seeing people and didn't have time to chat anymore.
but i go clean it out all the time and it seems that some folks still go in and out daily... trick is catching someone on at the same time you are.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
ok chat is up
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.