penkitten
Master Don Juan
when you reach your 10 limit, come on over to the chatroom
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.Rollo Tomassi said:I wish I could participate, but it's always scheduled when I'm sleeping.
Dammit...ive had to register for this chatroom like 3 times already...take that registration crap off PK!!!penkitten said:ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
you should only have to do it once ken, then never again.Ken785 said:Dammit...ive had to register for this chatroom like 3 times already...take that registration crap off PK!!!
Summer is pretty much over now - let's get them back started again. I'd love to join when there is a good turn out!penkitten said:ever since summer started, there hasn't really been any scheduled chats.
whenever everyone is ready to participate , let me know what topics you want to discuss and a good time to pick the sunday night chats back up.
we are trying to see what we can do.Axcell said:Summer is pretty much over now - let's get them back started again. I'd love to join when there is a good turn out!
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.