how about this:
Hey, it was cool to meet you, do you go/there often? (wait for response)
There is a cool cafe/place near Fooarea, lets meet for coffee or a sweet wine... what do you say?
make sure you ask one question per text/line. Do not ask two questions on a first text, she will choose to answer only one and choose which one (which is generally the one that is less important to you)
bad:
you: today is beautiful, isnt it? Want to meet me for coffee?"
her: yeah, its a nice day
(crickets)
good:
you: what a beautiful day, isnt it?
her: yeah
you: There is a cool cafe/place near Fooarea, let's meet for coffee or a sweet wine... what do you say?
her: [response]
incorporate these text hints into your text, they help illicit responses:
"blah blah hey this thing... let's do/go/see/try"
"like when this or that happens, isnt that right?"
"we should do/go/meet... what do you say?"
"sometimes some character values are important... dont you think?"
the word "Let's / let's try" is very powerful to a woman,
use it often and when you are asking something that could involve the both of you
when she is in doubts, use the word/phrase, "its your choice"
you: Lets meet for coffee
her: I dont know
you: ok cool, its my invitation and your choice, let me know