nicksaiz65
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A while back I made some threads about the best text method. Text for logistics or text a girl up until a date? The results were that it varies from person to person. So you have to go experiment.
I went with the beginner method of texting for logistics. I was able to get a handful of dates. But what would always happen is, I would have girls that initiated on me first and showed decently high interest. They'd agree to a date with me. Then on the day of, "Hey so, blah blah blah, lame contrived excuse, cancel."
I'm thinking of texting the girl up until the date instead of just "going ghost." Experimenting with that for a while and seeing if my flake rate drops. I'm under the impression that you need to do that to get young girls anyway...
But the thing is, how do you send lighthearted, fun, flirty value giving texts without coming off as needy/cringey? And how much do you flirt in the first place? Some of the examples I've seen from PUAs in the past have been absolute cringe. Stuff like "Your evening entertainment is here." Or "Let's get married." Or "What's the best kid's cereal?" That and avoiding being the boring questions guy. Ugh.
So I was wondering if someone could show or link me to a primer texting in this style. I wanna experiment to see if it works better than texting for logistics.
I went with the beginner method of texting for logistics. I was able to get a handful of dates. But what would always happen is, I would have girls that initiated on me first and showed decently high interest. They'd agree to a date with me. Then on the day of, "Hey so, blah blah blah, lame contrived excuse, cancel."
I'm thinking of texting the girl up until the date instead of just "going ghost." Experimenting with that for a while and seeing if my flake rate drops. I'm under the impression that you need to do that to get young girls anyway...
But the thing is, how do you send lighthearted, fun, flirty value giving texts without coming off as needy/cringey? And how much do you flirt in the first place? Some of the examples I've seen from PUAs in the past have been absolute cringe. Stuff like "Your evening entertainment is here." Or "Let's get married." Or "What's the best kid's cereal?" That and avoiding being the boring questions guy. Ugh.
So I was wondering if someone could show or link me to a primer texting in this style. I wanna experiment to see if it works better than texting for logistics.
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