Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Ok, just did a second gymsession today. Half hour backhand then shredded the chest to pieces. Two chest taps in one day is ok occasionally. Totally fvcked now.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah dude I did the last half of my workout outside and it's fvcking awesome, people watching you as they walk/drive by hahaha. The only point I'll disagree with is that looking epic naked isn't the main reason (though it is a reason) we do this, it's to be as badass as fvcking possible! Pushing through the pain on the path to greatnessPurefilth said:thanks man.
Chest
Incline
70 x 12
77 x 10
84 x 8
91 x 5 (failed)
98 x 1 (failed)
77 x 12
is this on a machine or a bench? awesome weight for incline either way
Bench(so friggin hot, had to have a light one)
60 x 12
70 x 12
80 x 6 x 3
60 x 12
Incline DB press
30kg(each hand)
2 x 8
27.5kg
2 x 8
incline then flat fly
22.5kg
2 x 12
then some triceps work (dropsets etc)
Left there swole
bicep curls, skullkrushers and pressups in the garden before a walk to the shops (I like gettin a pump on and lookin swole in public - i mean thats the main reason for all of this right? LOOK FVCKING EPIC NAKED)
Hah - true dat! You have pushed me back onto the path of righteousness. Forgive me - vanity and temptation were strong.TheStig said:Yeah dude I did the last half of my workout outside and it's fvcking awesome, people watching you as they walk/drive by hahaha. The only point I'll disagree with is that looking epic naked isn't the main reason (though it is a reason) we do this, it's to be as badass as fvcking possible! Pushing through[/url] the pain on the path to greatness
True words man...and yeah Mudvayne is such a badass band to workout to, like your mind shuts off and you become an animalPurefilth said:Hah - true dat! You have pushed me back onto the path of righteousness. Forgive me - vanity and temptation were strong.
Lol the first incline was machine. I had nobody to spot me, so incline machine and light bench.
It's amazing that gym feeling looks like nothing when written down, but we all see each others pain and understand.
We earned every ounce of pain here and noone can take that from us.
Edit: good tune man- definitely adding that to my playlist.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
With the size and shape I am I wouldn't blame you!TheStig said:If I'd have walked in the gym and saw you struggling with 14 kg I'd have started laughing my ass off haha, but really though good work
Oh man haha if you could have seen my face when I was doing dropset curls yesterday, you'd think I was giving birth!Purefilth said:With the size and shape I am I wouldn't blame you! Exactly lol
Some guy did look at me funny but he could see I was on Dropsets. I think it may have been the face I was pulling that got the funny looks.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
What's up with the elbow m8?Purefilth said:3 sets 12 pullups BW
Yates' row
90kg x 12 x 4 sets
seated row
95 kg 4 sets
then 2 x sets dropset =>failure
few more pullups I twinged my elbow on mthe yates's I think and the pain got the better of me.
I hate walking out half done - but Ill be damned If I'm gonna waste more injury time.
Anti inflammitory and all will be well
Just a twinge, then a deep ache. It's fine now, just my body telling me to give it a rest.Lifeforce said:What's up with the elbow m8?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.