Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blinkwatt

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Drum&Bass said:
who are these people that are claiming to be huge ?
I'm not naming names,they know who they are. I just received an PM from one who claims they are twice my size and twice as defined at 16 years old......If that were true they would be bodybuilding! He claims he did it off of push ups and sit ups only......
 

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My problems with my diet lie within me mainly. Granted, I am saving money for a car, and I do have a few bills to pay, but I usually let my mom do the shopping. I just never set aside time to get my sh*t together.
 

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Just got 24 fitness membership january, i was in ok shape before but i have found quick results.

I did mostly push ups and situps before that.
 

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I don't have a cam at the moment and there's some tattoos i'd have to cover up if I ended up posting pics. But at this stage i'm not comfortable enough to do it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My problems with my diet lie within me mainly. Granted, I am saving money for a car, and I do have a few bills to pay, but I usually let my mom do the shopping. I just never set aside time to get my sh*t together.
Well, why can't you just go to sandwich shops a few times a day while you're at school? Go there and get big sandwiches, or (meat) salad boxes, or baked potatoes with toppings, etc?

It doesn't have to be extravagant and laborious to eat enough protein and calories. When your mom goes shopping ask her to get you loads of tubs of cottage cheese - 250cals and 30g of protein per tub. Cans of tuna - 150cals 30g+ of protein per can. Shove it all on wholemeal bread at home.

Or if you'd just prefer to do it, go into a store during your lunch break and get high protein foods that you like, i.e. cottage cheese, quark, tuna, etc :) You can get beef tinned in gravy.

-shaun
 

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im 6'5 350lbs 6% bodyfat. i cant afford a camera right now, my grocery bill is about 6000$/month. andy bolton trains at my gym.
 

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Nice work Espi. What are your current goals?
 

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I take whey, a multi, C, flax oil, and, when I'm not cycling steroids, creatine.
I just started flax oil too and bought the pills. Someone at my gym said the pills dont work :( Im not sure if thats true but I hate gym rumours like that and hope they do!
 

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I just started flax oil too and bought the pills. Someone at my gym said the pills dont work Im not sure if thats true but I hate gym rumours like that and hope they do!
Hm, well, from what I've heard, pills are ok, but you have to take a lot of pills to get the same amount of flax in 2 table spoons of flax oil. 8-9 of pills for each tbsp, so you'd need about 19 pills if you're wanting to take 2tbsps like a lot of people. The oil probably works out cheaper :)

Apparently some of the quality of the product can also be degraded during the encapsulation process, thus losing some of the nutritional value.

-shaun
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I heard about quality lost from pills too because of the heating required to encapsulate oil. Oh well Ill finish them off and then buy some oil.
 

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Espi you are huge... nice. What would happen if you didnt take steroids, in your opinion how would the result differ.
 

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Espi said:
RE steroids: there's no doubt in my mind that natural results would pale in comparion to my using steroids. I've cycled 4 times, and after each cycle, I usually end up keeping about 5-8 lbs. of solid muscle...doesn't sound like a lot, but it is...you really notice it after the cycle's ended and the water retention dissapears...
I am curious whether you noticed any side effects or ill health from using them?

Also, where did you get them from and do you take them orally or another way?

Did you notice any strength enhancement or general physical fitness?

I wouldn't touch steroids myself because I'm too afraid of the side effects, but I am open minded about hearing people's experiences.
 

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Yeah, I second each one of Jariel's questions. It'd be very interesting to hear the answers to several important questions from someone who's taken steroids and had great results from them :) Also, which steroid(s) have you tried? Dianabol, etc..?

Jariel, could you please check your PMs please mate, if/when ya get a minute? :up:

-shaun
 

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I don't know how long Espi has been cycling or what not,but I don't think that he is old enough to see the long term effects of steroids. I have seen both people that I know who have taken steroids go on "roid rage". The first tried to beat a classmate down in the middle of a school rally,he was 18 and only took one cycle. The second ended up beating his wife,thus destroying his marriage and he only took two cycles and it occurred a few years after he took them,he also has been known to get really angry and yell at people at work every once and awhile.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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6-heads lewis

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Im really intesreted in hearing about your steroids experiences as well espi.

ive read somewhere that the best thing it does is allow you to work out more frequently and longer. does your routine drastically change during cycles?

did you notice any difference in your hair quality? ive read it increases onset of MPB, which is what i fear most (i know, how vain).

thanks
 

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I'd fear things other than going bald. Steroids are a touchy subject, and nothing but the utmost caution and proper usage could spell disaster in a number of ways...
 

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A good place to read about steroids and peoples experiences is forum.bodybuilding.com
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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