I've done a search on Body Language and there's a ton of threads on the subject but I noticed that some threads say when sitting "You should lean back" when talking, while another says "You should lean forward." Which one is it? What if you're eating dinner and talking at some restaurant, you can't lean back, right? LOL. Wouldn't leaning forward with eye contact, smile and stimulating convo work better?
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Lean in, or Lean back???
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Just be relaxed, bro.
If you lean back with any tension in your body you have failed at demonstrating good body language. If you lean forward with tension you have failed.
Body language is very important but worrying about leaning forward vs. back is such a waste. I don't care what Style and Mystery say.
A relaxed, confidant posture will win every time. Of course, I generally lean back.
If you lean back with any tension in your body you have failed at demonstrating good body language. If you lean forward with tension you have failed.
Body language is very important but worrying about leaning forward vs. back is such a waste. I don't care what Style and Mystery say.
A relaxed, confidant posture will win every time. Of course, I generally lean back.
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Second that.
Was on a coffee date a couple weeks ago, and noticed I was leaning in a lot, she was leaning back. Hmm. Realized I was trying too hard in the conversation as well.
So I started leaning back. And she started leaning in. And she started to work harder in the conversation. Innerestin'...
Of course, the best is when you're both leaning in, you're in your own little shared world and everything else is shut out. Get that vibe going, lay down some kino, and it's on.
Well, it's Saturday night, and I'm off. The girls are out there!
Totally agree. You can decorate a house as much as you like, but if it has no foundation it'll fall apart anyway."She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Remulak
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lean with it, rock with it