"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zerix

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What's the difference between doing them with wide grip and narrow grip?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zerix said:
What's the difference between doing them with wide grip and narrow grip?
different emphasis.

Don't worry about it. Take a shoulder grip width & pull.

Btw, switch to pull-ups or chin-ups. Better than machines.
 

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Yeah I do them already at the end, I start with lat pulls though. Guess I'll be cutting that out.
 

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Zerix said:
Yeah I do them already at the end, I start with lat pulls though. Guess I'll be cutting that out.
alternate between pull-ups & chin-ups. Once you can do 15 reps, start adding weight.

-Good luck.
 

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stronglifts said:
alternate between pull-ups & chin-ups. Once you can do 15 reps, start adding weight.

-Good luck.
Hm, alternate how? One set of pullups, rest, one set of chinups, rest, one set of pullups, etc?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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depends how often you train back. most routines train back (width) once a week, so it'd be one week chins, one week pullups.
 

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Most of the time the wider you grip it,the wider it should make your back. Same applies to rows.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's the difference between chinups and pullups? I always thought it was just tomAYto tomAHto.
 
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