Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kissing with glasses

pineapple

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I haven't kissed a girl for a while now. And I really don't know how the mechanics will work with glasses.

I mean is it possible? or should I take them off?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Doggystyle

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Best Tip Ever!!!

Your glasses or hers? It doesn't really matter anyway, they wont get in the way unless they are gigantic comedy style glasses
 

reyalp

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Expect your glasses to get smudged all to hell when you mug out with a girl and you have glasses on.

Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK :)
 

Sean O

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Buy an elastic band that you can use to tie the ends of your glasses together, so they fit snug all the way around your head. That way, you can kiss her in a hurricane and your glasses won't fall off. Just watch out for projectile SUVs...

:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Henkel

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reyalp said:
Expect your glasses to get smudged all to hell when you mug out with a girl and you have glasses on.

Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK :)
Hmm do some insurances cover eye surgery? I mean if your vision is like -4 in both eyes instead of -10 and -1 for example.
 

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Please read the description of each section before making future posts. Thanks.

As this deals with the mechanics of kissing, moved to AE.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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seanchai

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Kissing in glasses is dirty. Take them off. Make a theatrical point - take them off, carefully fold them and put them in your pocket, and then kiss her.

Don't listen to me.
 
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