"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kissing with glasses

pineapple

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I haven't kissed a girl for a while now. And I really don't know how the mechanics will work with glasses.

I mean is it possible? or should I take them off?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Doggystyle

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Best Tip Ever!!!

Your glasses or hers? It doesn't really matter anyway, they wont get in the way unless they are gigantic comedy style glasses
 

reyalp

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Expect your glasses to get smudged all to hell when you mug out with a girl and you have glasses on.

Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK :)
 

Sean O

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Buy an elastic band that you can use to tie the ends of your glasses together, so they fit snug all the way around your head. That way, you can kiss her in a hurricane and your glasses won't fall off. Just watch out for projectile SUVs...

:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Henkel

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reyalp said:
Expect your glasses to get smudged all to hell when you mug out with a girl and you have glasses on.

Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK :)
Hmm do some insurances cover eye surgery? I mean if your vision is like -4 in both eyes instead of -10 and -1 for example.
 

diablo

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Please read the description of each section before making future posts. Thanks.

As this deals with the mechanics of kissing, moved to AE.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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seanchai

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Kissing in glasses is dirty. Take them off. Make a theatrical point - take them off, carefully fold them and put them in your pocket, and then kiss her.

Don't listen to me.
 
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