"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kissing with glasses
- Thread starter pineapple
- Start date
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Doggystyle
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Your glasses or hers? It doesn't really matter anyway, they wont get in the way unless they are gigantic comedy style glasses
reyalp
Master Don Juan
Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hmm do some insurances cover eye surgery? I mean if your vision is like -4 in both eyes instead of -10 and -1 for example.reyalp said:Expect your glasses to get smudged all to hell when you mug out with a girl and you have glasses on.
Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK
PersonalJesus
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"Well how am i gonna kiss a lady with these c ocksucker glasses on?"
Hahaha sorry its the first thing i thought of.
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diablo
Master Don Juan
As this deals with the mechanics of kissing, moved to AE.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.