"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Kissing with glasses

pineapple

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I haven't kissed a girl for a while now. And I really don't know how the mechanics will work with glasses.

I mean is it possible? or should I take them off?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Doggystyle

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Best Tip Ever!!!

Your glasses or hers? It doesn't really matter anyway, they wont get in the way unless they are gigantic comedy style glasses
 

reyalp

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Expect your glasses to get smudged all to hell when you mug out with a girl and you have glasses on.

Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK :)
 

Sean O

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Buy an elastic band that you can use to tie the ends of your glasses together, so they fit snug all the way around your head. That way, you can kiss her in a hurricane and your glasses won't fall off. Just watch out for projectile SUVs...

:D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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reyalp said:
Expect your glasses to get smudged all to hell when you mug out with a girl and you have glasses on.

Happens to me all the damn time. I can't wait for my vision insurance to kick in so I can throw down on the LASIK :)
Hmm do some insurances cover eye surgery? I mean if your vision is like -4 in both eyes instead of -10 and -1 for example.
 

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DJ Tips is for giving tips, not asking for them. Please read the description of each section before making future posts. Thanks.

As this deals with the mechanics of kissing, moved to AE.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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seanchai

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Kissing in glasses is dirty. Take them off. Make a theatrical point - take them off, carefully fold them and put them in your pocket, and then kiss her.

Don't listen to me.
 
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