of course, we know not to appear flustered and remain composed. do you start talking about whatevers as if nothing just happend? do you make some witty comment? do you hold eye contact w/ her and give a sly grin? what's the best way to handle a getting rejected when going for the kiss?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
kiss rejected; how do you handle it?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Just say give a laugh and say "I wasn't trying to kiss you is that what you thought?" Then they will be like oh really now? And they will try as hard as they can to land one on your lips.
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Of course
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
depends you can usually tell if interest levels are high enough to warrant a kiss. obviously if she rejects you the interest level is pretty low. ive held out to points where a girl has bluntly said "why havent you kissed me yet" or they make the move themselves. if i was rejected i would possibly neg with "why are you trying to kiss me i dont want your girl cooties".
feel it out more so you dont get rejected, i think the last time i was rejected from a kiss by a girl i was still in middle school
do a hug test and or kiss on the cheek playfully and check for the reaction then go from there
feel it out more so you dont get rejected, i think the last time i was rejected from a kiss by a girl i was still in middle school
do a hug test and or kiss on the cheek playfully and check for the reaction then go from there
i prefer to keep it going and make her kiss me
but if u do get rejected just remain doin what u were doin before u went in and stay silent looking at her or whatever, make it so she is the one who has to come up with an explantion
but if u do get rejected just remain doin what u were doin before u went in and stay silent looking at her or whatever, make it so she is the one who has to come up with an explantion
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Eulogy how does that go?