"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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kiss rejected; how do you handle it?

john_1234

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of course, we know not to appear flustered and remain composed. do you start talking about whatevers as if nothing just happend? do you make some witty comment? do you hold eye contact w/ her and give a sly grin? what's the best way to handle a getting rejected when going for the kiss?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DasaniWater

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Just say give a laugh and say "I wasn't trying to kiss you is that what you thought?" Then they will be like oh really now? And they will try as hard as they can to land one on your lips.
 

john_1234

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haha... i can see that working if said in the right way. field tested?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Weak_Game

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depends you can usually tell if interest levels are high enough to warrant a kiss. obviously if she rejects you the interest level is pretty low. ive held out to points where a girl has bluntly said "why havent you kissed me yet" or they make the move themselves. if i was rejected i would possibly neg with "why are you trying to kiss me i dont want your girl cooties".

feel it out more so you dont get rejected, i think the last time i was rejected from a kiss by a girl i was still in middle school

do a hug test and or kiss on the cheek playfully and check for the reaction then go from there
 

Soprano

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i prefer to keep it going and make her kiss me

but if u do get rejected just remain doin what u were doin before u went in and stay silent looking at her or whatever, make it so she is the one who has to come up with an explantion
 

Eulogy

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Just do Mystery's kiss-close. It's win-win.
 
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