of course, we know not to appear flustered and remain composed. do you start talking about whatevers as if nothing just happend? do you make some witty comment? do you hold eye contact w/ her and give a sly grin? what's the best way to handle a getting rejected when going for the kiss?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
kiss rejected; how do you handle it?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Just say give a laugh and say "I wasn't trying to kiss you is that what you thought?" Then they will be like oh really now? And they will try as hard as they can to land one on your lips.
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Of course
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
depends you can usually tell if interest levels are high enough to warrant a kiss. obviously if she rejects you the interest level is pretty low. ive held out to points where a girl has bluntly said "why havent you kissed me yet" or they make the move themselves. if i was rejected i would possibly neg with "why are you trying to kiss me i dont want your girl cooties".
feel it out more so you dont get rejected, i think the last time i was rejected from a kiss by a girl i was still in middle school
do a hug test and or kiss on the cheek playfully and check for the reaction then go from there
feel it out more so you dont get rejected, i think the last time i was rejected from a kiss by a girl i was still in middle school
do a hug test and or kiss on the cheek playfully and check for the reaction then go from there
i prefer to keep it going and make her kiss me
but if u do get rejected just remain doin what u were doin before u went in and stay silent looking at her or whatever, make it so she is the one who has to come up with an explantion
but if u do get rejected just remain doin what u were doin before u went in and stay silent looking at her or whatever, make it so she is the one who has to come up with an explantion
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Eulogy how does that go?