of course, we know not to appear flustered and remain composed. do you start talking about whatevers as if nothing just happend? do you make some witty comment? do you hold eye contact w/ her and give a sly grin? what's the best way to handle a getting rejected when going for the kiss?
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
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kiss rejected; how do you handle it?
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Just say give a laugh and say "I wasn't trying to kiss you is that what you thought?" Then they will be like oh really now? And they will try as hard as they can to land one on your lips.
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Of course
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
depends you can usually tell if interest levels are high enough to warrant a kiss. obviously if she rejects you the interest level is pretty low. ive held out to points where a girl has bluntly said "why havent you kissed me yet" or they make the move themselves. if i was rejected i would possibly neg with "why are you trying to kiss me i dont want your girl cooties".
feel it out more so you dont get rejected, i think the last time i was rejected from a kiss by a girl i was still in middle school
do a hug test and or kiss on the cheek playfully and check for the reaction then go from there
feel it out more so you dont get rejected, i think the last time i was rejected from a kiss by a girl i was still in middle school
do a hug test and or kiss on the cheek playfully and check for the reaction then go from there
i prefer to keep it going and make her kiss me
but if u do get rejected just remain doin what u were doin before u went in and stay silent looking at her or whatever, make it so she is the one who has to come up with an explantion
but if u do get rejected just remain doin what u were doin before u went in and stay silent looking at her or whatever, make it so she is the one who has to come up with an explantion
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Eulogy how does that go?