"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kino: Good or bad?

ARrocket

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Ok, today I was feeling like crap, so I decided to read the bible (DJ bible of course).

Now, since joining this site, I've been bombarded with thoughts of kino. It seems to make perfect sense to me. But according to this post (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40241), it seems that kino should not be used as heavily...and the reasoning seems valid as well.

Personally, I still think kino is a very important tool, but I'm wondering what you guys think of this....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Kino is a great tool. But, yes, It should not be used heavily at first. You want to start off lightly and escelate depending on her re-actions.
 

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At first I was intimidated by using kino but just grab ur balls and try it. Try to find out; hands on experiences are better than words
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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oldschooler said:
The only bad thing with kino and me is im really touchy feely, I love hugs and all that jazz and as a result I have scared people away before :).
ya, it happens like that. i have one of my friends like that but note, the touchy feely guys can really be very good players cause they can escalate very easily.
 
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