"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kino: Good or bad?

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Ok, today I was feeling like crap, so I decided to read the bible (DJ bible of course).

Now, since joining this site, I've been bombarded with thoughts of kino. It seems to make perfect sense to me. But according to this post (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40241), it seems that kino should not be used as heavily...and the reasoning seems valid as well.

Personally, I still think kino is a very important tool, but I'm wondering what you guys think of this....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kino is a great tool. But, yes, It should not be used heavily at first. You want to start off lightly and escelate depending on her re-actions.
 
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At first I was intimidated by using kino but just grab ur balls and try it. Try to find out; hands on experiences are better than words
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oldschooler said:
The only bad thing with kino and me is im really touchy feely, I love hugs and all that jazz and as a result I have scared people away before :).
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ya, it happens like that. i have one of my friends like that but note, the touchy feely guys can really be very good players cause they can escalate very easily.
 
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