Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kino: Good or bad?

ARrocket

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Ok, today I was feeling like crap, so I decided to read the bible (DJ bible of course).

Now, since joining this site, I've been bombarded with thoughts of kino. It seems to make perfect sense to me. But according to this post (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40241), it seems that kino should not be used as heavily...and the reasoning seems valid as well.

Personally, I still think kino is a very important tool, but I'm wondering what you guys think of this....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Kino is a great tool. But, yes, It should not be used heavily at first. You want to start off lightly and escelate depending on her re-actions.
 

antidonjuan

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At first I was intimidated by using kino but just grab ur balls and try it. Try to find out; hands on experiences are better than words
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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schttrj

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oldschooler said:
The only bad thing with kino and me is im really touchy feely, I love hugs and all that jazz and as a result I have scared people away before :).
ya, it happens like that. i have one of my friends like that but note, the touchy feely guys can really be very good players cause they can escalate very easily.
 
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