"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kino: Good or bad?

ARrocket

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Ok, today I was feeling like crap, so I decided to read the bible (DJ bible of course).

Now, since joining this site, I've been bombarded with thoughts of kino. It seems to make perfect sense to me. But according to this post (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40241), it seems that kino should not be used as heavily...and the reasoning seems valid as well.

Personally, I still think kino is a very important tool, but I'm wondering what you guys think of this....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Kino is a great tool. But, yes, It should not be used heavily at first. You want to start off lightly and escelate depending on her re-actions.
 

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At first I was intimidated by using kino but just grab ur balls and try it. Try to find out; hands on experiences are better than words
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oldschooler said:
The only bad thing with kino and me is im really touchy feely, I love hugs and all that jazz and as a result I have scared people away before :).
ya, it happens like that. i have one of my friends like that but note, the touchy feely guys can really be very good players cause they can escalate very easily.
 
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