You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
R.I.P
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Apparently he got of hold of fentanyl. My guess they wont make it "official" until all his family members get confirm knowledge of it.
That sounds credible. Lifestyle + drugs + strange woman + his 2-3 Red Bull’s per show.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Murder?
I don't agree with all of his points. I also don't necessarily believe how he treated his guests, but he talked about topics that needed to be addressed. Some time ago none of these topics were discussed.
I'm not stanning him but he might not have been the best messenger(better then any-other youtube out their) but the message was true and he actually gave good advice.
I think people took his “advice” a bit too seriously. The show was informative but mostly just entertaining. The women that called in were train wrecks. Unfortunately, they actually were a good representation of a lot of black American women.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You do not change people's minds by attacking them... attacking people just gets them to dig in... then your argument becomes emotional at rational. Another conservative pundent that IMO is just terrible is Ben Shapero. Shapero doesn't change anyone's mind, he just reinforces what others already believe. Debating Shapero is like arguing with a chick... if you start pinning him down he just launches off and emotionally attacks you. He is a piece of garbage.
Hes representative of a good percentage of youtube.com. also keep in mind even many printed magazines are mostly trash.
We can't say it's all or most BW, but it's that good percentage of BW that guys to complain about. I did find a few youtube channels with the hidden women who don't get alot of attention who aren't of a gold digger or exploiter mindset. Many have a bright and positive energy who would tend to set in a supporter position to their man. Some of them think they "aren't enough" as they go back and forth thinking they need to compete with the gold digger types for attention and men. Either that or competing for men that would only exploit and or not be grateful for them. Anyways it was cool to see it still existed. So if one is complaining, they just might be fishing in the polluted pond or river only with oily and polluted fish in it and instead of moving they stay fishing in it and complaining about fish.
Almost all the women I have dated are black. The broads that called into his show are indeed representative of black women as a whole. 99% of them possess at least one of the following to some degree:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.