"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can't believe this.
He was on a music video with future, got on live vid with Nicki Minaj and more.
The News called him"controversial " and "misogynist" ... Harsh words for a dead person.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sorry, just because a guy puts on a nice suit and glasses doesn't mean he knows what he is doing. Don't take relationship advice from a guy that never had a successful relationship... who was married once... said it was a mistake to get married in the first place... then went ahead and did it again... unless that advice is DON'T DO relationships. He gives business advice and never started a business.

I will say he has good fashion sense, I like his clothes.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sorry, just because a guy puts on a nice suit and glasses doesn't mean he knows what he is doing. Don't take relationship advice from a guy that never had a successful relationship... who was married once... said it was a mistake to get married in the first place... then went ahead and did it again... unless that advice is DON'T DO relationships. He gives business advice and never started a business.

I will say he has good fashion sense, I like his clothes.
I don't agree with all of his points. I also don't necessarily believe how he treated his guests, but he talked about topics that needed to be addressed. Some time ago none of these topics were discussed.
 

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Sorry, just because a guy puts on a nice suit and glasses doesn't mean he knows what he is doing. Don't take relationship advice from a guy that never had a successful relationship... who was married once... said it was a mistake to get married in the first place... then went ahead and did it again... unless that advice is DON'T DO relationships. He gives business advice and never started a business.

I will say he has good fashion sense, I like his clothes.
I'm not stanning him but he might not have been the best messenger(better then any-other youtube out their) but the message was true and he actually gave good advice.
 

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I'm not stanning him but he might not have been the best messenger(better then any-other youtube out their) but the message was true and he actually gave good advice.
I think people took his “advice” a bit too seriously. The show was informative but mostly just entertaining. The women that called in were train wrecks. Unfortunately, they actually were a good representation of a lot of black American women.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Whenever sex and cardiac arrest are at the scene of death there are some drugs involved…

I am actually kind of surprised it was with a woman. I always assumed he was gay.
 

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I don't agree with all of his points. I also don't necessarily believe how he treated his guests, but he talked about topics that needed to be addressed. Some time ago none of these topics were discussed.
You do not change people's minds by attacking them... attacking people just gets them to dig in... then your argument becomes emotional at rational. Another conservative pundent that IMO is just terrible is Ben Shapero. Shapero doesn't change anyone's mind, he just reinforces what others already believe. Debating Shapero is like arguing with a chick... if you start pinning him down he just launches off and emotionally attacks you. He is a piece of garbage.

If you are looking for interpersonal relationship and life advice, your best bet is "Jordan Peterson". If you are looking for advice on how to bang as many chicks as you can before you die, "AMS". If you are a small business entrepreneur and what to use YouTube to get solid advice "Wishpond" truth is no ONE PERSON can give you good business advice.

Like I said I would hire Samuels as a fashion consultant of personal shopper, but that is it. Never try to pretend you are more than what you are.
 

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You do not change people's minds by attacking them... attacking people just gets them to dig in... then your argument becomes emotional at rational. Another conservative pundent that IMO is just terrible is Ben Shapero. Shapero doesn't change anyone's mind, he just reinforces what others already believe. Debating Shapero is like arguing with a chick... if you start pinning him down he just launches off and emotionally attacks you. He is a piece of garbage.

If you are looking for interpersonal relationship and life advice, your best bet is "Jordan Peterson". If you are looking for advice on how to bang as many chicks as you can before you die, "AMS". If you are a small business entrepreneur and what to use YouTube to get solid advice "Wishpond" truth is no ONE PERSON can give you good business advice.

Like I said I would hire Samuels as a fashion consultant of personal shopper, but that is it. Never try to pretend you are more than what you are.
Hes representative of a good percentage of youtube.com. also keep in mind even many printed magazines are mostly trash.
 

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I think people took his “advice” a bit too seriously. The show was informative but mostly just entertaining. The women that called in were train wrecks. Unfortunately, they actually were a good representation of a lot of black American women.
We can't say it's all or most BW, but it's that good percentage of BW that guys to complain about. I did find a few youtube channels with the hidden women who don't get alot of attention who aren't of a gold digger or exploiter mindset. Many have a bright and positive energy who would tend to set in a supporter position to their man. Some of them think they "aren't enough" as they go back and forth thinking they need to compete with the gold digger types for attention and men. Either that or competing for men that would only exploit and or not be grateful for them. Anyways it was cool to see it still existed. So if one is complaining, they just might be fishing in the polluted pond or river only with oily and polluted fish in it and instead of moving they stay fishing in it and complaining about fish.
 

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We can't say it's all or most BW, but it's that good percentage of BW that guys to complain about. I did find a few youtube channels with the hidden women who don't get alot of attention who aren't of a gold digger or exploiter mindset.
Almost all the women I have dated are black. The broads that called into his show are indeed representative of black women as a whole. 99% of them possess at least one of the following to some degree:

-masculine
-argumentative
-ratchet
-fat
-career driven > family
-contempt for average men

The marriage rate in the black community is pitiful for a reason. Kevin Samuels “delivery” did not make any of this less true. Most of the time the women calling in outed themselves. This being exposed overall is a good thing for the black community.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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