I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
R.I.P
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Apparently he got of hold of fentanyl. My guess they wont make it "official" until all his family members get confirm knowledge of it.
That sounds credible. Lifestyle + drugs + strange woman + his 2-3 Red Bull’s per show.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Murder?
I don't agree with all of his points. I also don't necessarily believe how he treated his guests, but he talked about topics that needed to be addressed. Some time ago none of these topics were discussed.
I'm not stanning him but he might not have been the best messenger(better then any-other youtube out their) but the message was true and he actually gave good advice.
I think people took his “advice” a bit too seriously. The show was informative but mostly just entertaining. The women that called in were train wrecks. Unfortunately, they actually were a good representation of a lot of black American women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You do not change people's minds by attacking them... attacking people just gets them to dig in... then your argument becomes emotional at rational. Another conservative pundent that IMO is just terrible is Ben Shapero. Shapero doesn't change anyone's mind, he just reinforces what others already believe. Debating Shapero is like arguing with a chick... if you start pinning him down he just launches off and emotionally attacks you. He is a piece of garbage.
Hes representative of a good percentage of youtube.com. also keep in mind even many printed magazines are mostly trash.
We can't say it's all or most BW, but it's that good percentage of BW that guys to complain about. I did find a few youtube channels with the hidden women who don't get alot of attention who aren't of a gold digger or exploiter mindset. Many have a bright and positive energy who would tend to set in a supporter position to their man. Some of them think they "aren't enough" as they go back and forth thinking they need to compete with the gold digger types for attention and men. Either that or competing for men that would only exploit and or not be grateful for them. Anyways it was cool to see it still existed. So if one is complaining, they just might be fishing in the polluted pond or river only with oily and polluted fish in it and instead of moving they stay fishing in it and complaining about fish.
Almost all the women I have dated are black. The broads that called into his show are indeed representative of black women as a whole. 99% of them possess at least one of the following to some degree:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.