No, don’t cheat on her. Tell her candidly that corresponding with him is disrespectful to the relationship, thus unacceptable. Move forward with her. Be prepared to walk if you catch her communicating with him again. You must enforce this boundary and dump this girl for disloyalty if she crosses you again.so cheat on her? I don’t want to do that. She wants to see me too often to effectively spin plates anyways. I mean I could but thursdays to Sunday she’s always driving to see me.
Men, please have the conversation about exes before agreeing to exclusivity.