Master Don Juan
- Apr 28, 2018
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Not going to lie, you sound very paranoid. I am guessing you have been cheated on before. I agree with others that this was a pretty severe overreaction and you lost a lot of frame here with this woman by acting the way you did. I do agree that talking to the guy that late at night is somewhat borderline-ish behavior on her part, but you should have told her it was unacceptable calmly afterwards then employed S&D if she didn't comply following that discussion.Need some honest advice here fellas. Have a plate I’m seeing, she pushed for commitment. She drives two hours to see me. She’s caught me out with beautiful women before we were official, and still
Kept seeing me. I believe a girl has to prove herself 6 months before I commit but everyone likes her a lot.
the other night we went out with her girlfriend who is best friends with the ex. I knew about this. We saw her exes best friend at the club she told me that’s my ex boyfriends best friend just letting you know in case he’s here. I walked downstairs late at night and she was on the phone with the ex. Her stupid drunk friend I guess called the ex on my girlfriends phone. I confronted her and cursed the guy out and threw her **** out of my apartment thinking she was cheating on me.
she told me she hasn’t seen the guy in 4 years. And he lives in another city. Did some digging and the story checks out. The guy doesn’t even live here
so you tell me fellas. Should I kick this girl to the curb ? Or should I be pissed but am I overreacting?
part of me feels like ending a good thing with a girl
Who treats me like a king and gives me amazing sex, over a drunk phone call with a guy she hasn’t seen in 4 years in another state feels kind of psychopathic. especially when her friend instigated it. But if she’s not to be trusted I wanna get out while I can before I invest.
I Still banged her but I need to know if I should emotionally detach. I don’t wanna get hurt here. My gut says she’s a good girl and I know she loves me but this is ****ing with me. But if I’m acting nuts over this you guys gotta tell me to give her a shot
At this point, I think I would withdraw and see how she reacts. If she comes after you despite your outburst I think you stick with it for now and see how it proceeds. If she doesn't, you move on to the next.