I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Just hope you'll still look 25 when you're 50.Like title. Anyway I can use this positive in the dating scene ?
Of course he is. Who wouldn't be?Maybe you can use it to your benefit to bang 18-23 yr olds, if you are interested in that age range.
Totally agree.Of course he is. Who wouldn't be?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I easily could based on demeanorIf you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
Agree but lets also wear them hats just to be sure.If you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
Get girlsLike title. Anyway I can use this positive in the dating scene ?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Always check her elbows. You'll know.If you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
when do one gets old then?Once I hit my 30's or even mid 30's I thought it was considered "Old" but trust me dude, that is not old at all. You can STILL bang Women who are as young as 21. I've done it and you have the upper hand when it comes to experience. I'm also willing to bet 40 is still good enough to get Women who are 21+. No problem.
I think "Old" is a state of mind and body. If you feel old, you will tell yourself that you are old. That is why it is important to take care of yourself as much as possible. Men can still rock a young girls world in his 50's in my opinion if he has done a good job of taking care of himself. Experience will outdo the younger guys in certain areas.when do one gets old then?
What do you think makes you look younger than you are; the way you are framing the question makes you believe this is negative.Like title. Anyway I can use this positive in the dating scene ?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You would be able to tell the older women by looking at the fatter arsesIf you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
I take back what I said, 50 isn't old either. I apologize to any of the OG members I may have offended. I'm going to look like a linebacker at 50 like my sensei mrgoodstuff, and I'm going to think I'm the sh1t until I'm dead like beexcellentMake this thread when you're 50, because 30 isn't old at all
It's all a combination of state of mind, genes, upkeep/maintenance, nutrition, drinking/party lifestyle that determines how well you age.I take back what I said, 50 isn't old either. I apologize to any of the OG members I may have offended. I'm going to look like a linebacker at 50 like my sensei mrgoodstuff, and I'm going to think I'm the sh1t until I'm dead like beexcellent