She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just hope you'll still look 25 when you're 50.Like title. Anyway I can use this positive in the dating scene ?
Of course he is. Who wouldn't be?Maybe you can use it to your benefit to bang 18-23 yr olds, if you are interested in that age range.
Totally agree.Of course he is. Who wouldn't be?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I easily could based on demeanorIf you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
Agree but lets also wear them hats just to be sure.If you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
Get girlsLike title. Anyway I can use this positive in the dating scene ?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Always check her elbows. You'll know.If you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
when do one gets old then?Once I hit my 30's or even mid 30's I thought it was considered "Old" but trust me dude, that is not old at all. You can STILL bang Women who are as young as 21. I've done it and you have the upper hand when it comes to experience. I'm also willing to bet 40 is still good enough to get Women who are 21+. No problem.
I think "Old" is a state of mind and body. If you feel old, you will tell yourself that you are old. That is why it is important to take care of yourself as much as possible. Men can still rock a young girls world in his 50's in my opinion if he has done a good job of taking care of himself. Experience will outdo the younger guys in certain areas.when do one gets old then?
What do you think makes you look younger than you are; the way you are framing the question makes you believe this is negative.Like title. Anyway I can use this positive in the dating scene ?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You would be able to tell the older women by looking at the fatter arsesIf you put 10 twenty five year olds and 10 thirty year olds in a room wearing exactly the same outfit I’d be challenged to predict with any accuracy who is who..
I take back what I said, 50 isn't old either. I apologize to any of the OG members I may have offended. I'm going to look like a linebacker at 50 like my sensei mrgoodstuff, and I'm going to think I'm the sh1t until I'm dead like beexcellentMake this thread when you're 50, because 30 isn't old at all
It's all a combination of state of mind, genes, upkeep/maintenance, nutrition, drinking/party lifestyle that determines how well you age.I take back what I said, 50 isn't old either. I apologize to any of the OG members I may have offended. I'm going to look like a linebacker at 50 like my sensei mrgoodstuff, and I'm going to think I'm the sh1t until I'm dead like beexcellent