"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just let her go, not sure I should have?
- Thread starter Twodogs
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
sylvester the cat
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it's called Enabling. Which means she's attracted to men who treat her like shiit.Twodogs said:
eject now before it's too late.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enabling
Dgwizdal
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I was in a situation with a girl that i dated 3 months. 3 weeks ago a man showed up in her cell phone. she's texting and calling each other . i asked her who is he : she replied= he's just a friend. Big red flag.
Noticed he's calling more often than a normal friend should, yesterday i came her by surprise to her house she was ready to get to the shower . i asked her if she was going somewhere ? she said no. imagine my surprise that by looking into her WhatsApp msg i saw she was planing to meet this guy. she shaved her legs for this.
I cut it today . my heart is broken, lost all trust in her. same situation as you but a bit different.
Joe.
pyros
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Why would you want to be with a woman that has a few positive qualities but has also a COUPLE OF PRETTY BAD ONES?
1. MET HER ON dating site.
2. flirty behaviour with other men.
3. failed relationships and has children with two men.
4. BDP syndrom.
5. Hides stuff from you.
6. Drama maker.
Just go out there and fin a normal, regular woman without so much trouble, unless you want to be miserable of course...