"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just let her go, not sure I should have?
- Thread starter Twodogs
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
sylvester the cat
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it's called Enabling. Which means she's attracted to men who treat her like shiit.Twodogs said:
eject now before it's too late.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enabling
Dgwizdal
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I was in a situation with a girl that i dated 3 months. 3 weeks ago a man showed up in her cell phone. she's texting and calling each other . i asked her who is he : she replied= he's just a friend. Big red flag.
Noticed he's calling more often than a normal friend should, yesterday i came her by surprise to her house she was ready to get to the shower . i asked her if she was going somewhere ? she said no. imagine my surprise that by looking into her WhatsApp msg i saw she was planing to meet this guy. she shaved her legs for this.
I cut it today . my heart is broken, lost all trust in her. same situation as you but a bit different.
Joe.
pyros
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Why would you want to be with a woman that has a few positive qualities but has also a COUPLE OF PRETTY BAD ONES?
1. MET HER ON dating site.
2. flirty behaviour with other men.
3. failed relationships and has children with two men.
4. BDP syndrom.
5. Hides stuff from you.
6. Drama maker.
Just go out there and fin a normal, regular woman without so much trouble, unless you want to be miserable of course...