"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Just let her go, not sure I should have?
- Thread starter Twodogs
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sylvester the cat
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it's called Enabling. Which means she's attracted to men who treat her like shiit.Twodogs said:
eject now before it's too late.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enabling
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I was in a situation with a girl that i dated 3 months. 3 weeks ago a man showed up in her cell phone. she's texting and calling each other . i asked her who is he : she replied= he's just a friend. Big red flag.
Noticed he's calling more often than a normal friend should, yesterday i came her by surprise to her house she was ready to get to the shower . i asked her if she was going somewhere ? she said no. imagine my surprise that by looking into her WhatsApp msg i saw she was planing to meet this guy. she shaved her legs for this.
I cut it today . my heart is broken, lost all trust in her. same situation as you but a bit different.
Joe.
pyros
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Why would you want to be with a woman that has a few positive qualities but has also a COUPLE OF PRETTY BAD ONES?
1. MET HER ON dating site.
2. flirty behaviour with other men.
3. failed relationships and has children with two men.
4. BDP syndrom.
5. Hides stuff from you.
6. Drama maker.
Just go out there and fin a normal, regular woman without so much trouble, unless you want to be miserable of course...