"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just let her go, not sure I should have?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
sylvester the cat
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it's called Enabling. Which means she's attracted to men who treat her like shiit.Twodogs said:
eject now before it's too late.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enabling
Dgwizdal
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I was in a situation with a girl that i dated 3 months. 3 weeks ago a man showed up in her cell phone. she's texting and calling each other . i asked her who is he : she replied= he's just a friend. Big red flag.
Noticed he's calling more often than a normal friend should, yesterday i came her by surprise to her house she was ready to get to the shower . i asked her if she was going somewhere ? she said no. imagine my surprise that by looking into her WhatsApp msg i saw she was planing to meet this guy. she shaved her legs for this.
I cut it today . my heart is broken, lost all trust in her. same situation as you but a bit different.
Joe.
pyros
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Why would you want to be with a woman that has a few positive qualities but has also a COUPLE OF PRETTY BAD ONES?
1. MET HER ON dating site.
2. flirty behaviour with other men.
3. failed relationships and has children with two men.
4. BDP syndrom.
5. Hides stuff from you.
6. Drama maker.
Just go out there and fin a normal, regular woman without so much trouble, unless you want to be miserable of course...