Serenity
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You could also tell her it will never go back to the way it was.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Just got played
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ThisIsSparta
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1.) Dont tell her she can hurt you. This gives her way to much power over you.
2.) Dont talk to her about your feelings at all. Ignore her when she talks about anything but the kid.
3.) Distance your mind and heart from that beach. You are still to much in this.
4.) Focus on your duties as a father, you will need all your energy as things will go ugly once she realizes you are not her cuck anymore and she will try to use the kid to pressure you into things.
Romanemp22
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No dude what is wrong with you? Please have some self respect and take care of your needs and stop thinking about her and whos shes ****ing. It would be natural if you just broke up but you broke up a year and a half ago. Start talking to other women and stop thinking about her, its not healthy for you.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ThisIsSparta
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As long as you can take care of your kid, who gives a **** if she replys or not? Enjoy the time with your kid, even if he is sick.
In what country do you live? What custody arrangements do you have with her? Could you get full custody?
Things can never be the same. Dude ignore everything about her. Everything except your kid.
Why are you entertaining her? If the subject isn't your child you :
Walk away
Delete
Ignore
Block
Give zero answer
Give zero F^cks
Give zero reaction
Date other women.
If you are ever confused again, just refer to that list.
Romanemp22
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Can you provide a little bit more to the story?How did you suspect the kid was not yours?
Excellent point. Chicks lie. Especially when they want a guy-- any guy on the hook for their bills.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ThisIsSparta
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True, the man could be the cuck since much longer then he thinks......
djreez88
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The woman that brought me here cucked me withe a 1 yo at the time that i didn't immediately get a test on before getting back involved with her. I had known her for 3 years. She was in and out of my life. She had came back the last time with a kid she said was mine.
We got back together and about 6 months later my mother finally convinced me to get a dna. Wasn't mine. It broke me. She took the child and i haven't seen them since. I dodged a bullet in reality though. I could've ended up like my cousin that didn't find out about his "son" till he was 18. 18 years of child support smh.
Romanemp22
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Damn, thats harsh. Im glad your doing fine and that you really dodged that bullet man
Went to social services to have som advice about my son and how he lives now. They said my ex did several things wrong with hon and they are going to raport her but before that they wanted me to tell ger about the problems. I did but again no reply. This is important stuff but she ignores...
She is shooting herself in the foto.
She is shooting herself in the foto.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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Time and time again
DEEZEDBRAH
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Yes she is very Mad. She did nothing wrong ****ing another man,she is single and do whatever she wants she said. She is "surprised" of me blockning her and no contact but she dnt understand WHY i did that.
Of Course she understand but she is the victim here....
Of Course she understand but she is the victim here....