Michele l'Arcangelo
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you should go to a forum and post nude pics through PMs to me... i mean to show him what hes missing out on.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Just Found Out Boyfriend is Cheating on Me
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah don't act like irrational chick and come out swinging and crying.jwtile said:
If this was a court of law, and you told a judge that all you have are pictures of him laying on the bed and her writing as your only evidance, then its not enough to convict.
If he is cheating then obviously he is going to deny it and if he is not cheating then he is going to tell you the truth.
You need to gather more evidance before you confront him and possibly end it. Maybe this chick has it for your boyfriend and want to break the two of you apart so she can nab him. Although the fact that he was laying on her bed is not a good sign.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
jwtile said:
Why are you still giving this chump any of your attention?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Then at least find drama that doesn't make you think your world is going to end. Find some low grade drama.
I am surprised that your boyfriend didn't freak out yet and told this girl to take the picture's down before his girlfriend sees them, or she doesn't even know about you and he is playing both of you. It would have been ok if he said he only want to date the two of you and then you can take it or leave it but since he made a committment then it changes things.jwtile said:
It doesn't matter if you are prettier. You and him are probably what in your late teens, early 20's? this is the time of a man's life where he shouldn't even entertain an exclusive relationship. He is young and still wanted to fvck around and not be with one girl from the begining to the end of his life.jwtile said:
You can accept that fact end it and move on or do the same but let him know before hand that you going to be fvcking other guys since he had his fun and now its yours. I bet that won't sit well with him and he will be crying and acting like a b1tch and beg for forgiveness, if he still cares.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Dump him and move on after getting yourself some time, or don't and deal with the emotional and mental wreck and mind games you'll have.
Either way, do it soon because drama is the biggest turn off ever and the stupidest thing in the world.
Either way, do it soon because drama is the biggest turn off ever and the stupidest thing in the world.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DonGorgon
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jwtile said:
Welcome to the human experience, please refrain from finger pointing and naive lamentations about the obvious... MOst humans cheat, cause we are not instinctively monogamous creatures!
The only solution is to not focus on monogamy just get all you can out of the relationship for as long as you can put up with the negatives with tend to get worse over time as attraction fades...
TanzaniaMan
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Email him pictures of you gettin it on with a well hung guy, that will piss him off
Thanks everybody who helped me deal with this. I broke up with him last week and havent talked to him since. I did make sure to tell the other girl, and I did tell him off telling him how worthless he is. But yeah Im glad this drama is over.
Thanks everybody who helped me deal with this. I broke up with him last week and havent talked to him since. I did make sure to tell the other girl, and I did tell him off telling him how worthless he is. But yeah Im glad this drama is over.
Thanks everybody who helped me deal with this. I broke up with him last week and havent talked to him since. I did make sure to tell the other girl, and I did tell him off telling him how worthless he is. But yeah Im glad this drama is over.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.