Michele l'Arcangelo
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you should go to a forum and post nude pics through PMs to me... i mean to show him what hes missing out on.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Just Found Out Boyfriend is Cheating on Me
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Yeah don't act like irrational chick and come out swinging and crying.jwtile said:
If this was a court of law, and you told a judge that all you have are pictures of him laying on the bed and her writing as your only evidance, then its not enough to convict.
If he is cheating then obviously he is going to deny it and if he is not cheating then he is going to tell you the truth.
You need to gather more evidance before you confront him and possibly end it. Maybe this chick has it for your boyfriend and want to break the two of you apart so she can nab him. Although the fact that he was laying on her bed is not a good sign.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
jwtile said:
Why are you still giving this chump any of your attention?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Then at least find drama that doesn't make you think your world is going to end. Find some low grade drama.
I am surprised that your boyfriend didn't freak out yet and told this girl to take the picture's down before his girlfriend sees them, or she doesn't even know about you and he is playing both of you. It would have been ok if he said he only want to date the two of you and then you can take it or leave it but since he made a committment then it changes things.jwtile said:
It doesn't matter if you are prettier. You and him are probably what in your late teens, early 20's? this is the time of a man's life where he shouldn't even entertain an exclusive relationship. He is young and still wanted to fvck around and not be with one girl from the begining to the end of his life.jwtile said:
You can accept that fact end it and move on or do the same but let him know before hand that you going to be fvcking other guys since he had his fun and now its yours. I bet that won't sit well with him and he will be crying and acting like a b1tch and beg for forgiveness, if he still cares.
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
Dump him and move on after getting yourself some time, or don't and deal with the emotional and mental wreck and mind games you'll have.
Either way, do it soon because drama is the biggest turn off ever and the stupidest thing in the world.
Either way, do it soon because drama is the biggest turn off ever and the stupidest thing in the world.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DonGorgon
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jwtile said:
Welcome to the human experience, please refrain from finger pointing and naive lamentations about the obvious... MOst humans cheat, cause we are not instinctively monogamous creatures!
The only solution is to not focus on monogamy just get all you can out of the relationship for as long as you can put up with the negatives with tend to get worse over time as attraction fades...
TanzaniaMan
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Email him pictures of you gettin it on with a well hung guy, that will piss him off
Thanks everybody who helped me deal with this. I broke up with him last week and havent talked to him since. I did make sure to tell the other girl, and I did tell him off telling him how worthless he is. But yeah Im glad this drama is over.
Thanks everybody who helped me deal with this. I broke up with him last week and havent talked to him since. I did make sure to tell the other girl, and I did tell him off telling him how worthless he is. But yeah Im glad this drama is over.
Thanks everybody who helped me deal with this. I broke up with him last week and havent talked to him since. I did make sure to tell the other girl, and I did tell him off telling him how worthless he is. But yeah Im glad this drama is over.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.