Michele l'Arcangelo
Master Don Juan
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you should go to a forum and post nude pics through PMs to me... i mean to show him what hes missing out on.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah don't act like irrational chick and come out swinging and crying.jwtile said:Any adivce on how to deal with this?
\DJDamage said:Yeah don't act like irrational chick and come out swinging and crying.
If this was a court of law, and you told a judge that all you have are pictures of him laying on the bed and her writing as your only evidance, then its not enough to convict.
If he is cheating then obviously he is going to deny it and if he is not cheating then he is going to tell you the truth.
You need to gather more evidance before you confront him and possibly end it. Maybe this chick has it for your boyfriend and want to break the two of you apart so she can nab him. Although the fact that he was laying on her bed is not a good sign.
jwtile said:\
For sure hes cheating she posted new pics of her and him kissing n stuff from the "mall" pics. It looks like she has a belly. I bet she did that to trap him cuz she knew he was with me.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Drama is addictive.Rhoto said:Why are you still giving this chump any of your attention?
I am surprised that your boyfriend didn't freak out yet and told this girl to take the picture's down before his girlfriend sees them, or she doesn't even know about you and he is playing both of you. It would have been ok if he said he only want to date the two of you and then you can take it or leave it but since he made a committment then it changes things.jwtile said:For sure hes cheating she posted new pics of her and him kissing n stuff from the "mall" pics.
It doesn't matter if you are prettier. You and him are probably what in your late teens, early 20's? this is the time of a man's life where he shouldn't even entertain an exclusive relationship. He is young and still wanted to fvck around and not be with one girl from the begining to the end of his life.jwtile said:It looks like she has a belly. I bet she did that to trap him cuz she knew he was with me.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
jwtile said:Wow guys thanks for the advice. I guess I know what I have to do. Ive never been so heart broken or betrayed like that, and I know it's best to move on. Ive never felt so bad so any tips on how to deal/brealing up would help. *Gasp*. This is probably the hardest thing ive ever had to do and have been through.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.