"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just encountered a BPD. Game plan?

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FALSE - a woman with high interest makes it extremely obvious. Mixed signals = bad signals = low interest.

Guys, when I was 40 and again 42 I fell HARD for girls and got REALLY hurt, and would do anything to get them back. I read an article about BPD women that seemed to describe it exactly - but looking back, I was being a whiny loser who needed to move on to better women.

Instead of marrying a 36 year old who my mom HATED, I'm now dating a girl who was 15 at the time (now 21). That other girl would do anything for a date - actually she wrote to me TODAY. She looks so old. She's seeing photos of my girl on FB and realizing how dumb she was.

The solution wasn't for me to "game" her back. The solution was for me to work out, bike 10 miles per day, hire a physical trainer, eat organic, work harder, earn more, travel the country and date girls half my age.


Figure 1 - Now bigneil's girl (25 years his junior) only acts like a b!tch when he shouts "Act like a b!tch" as he's photographing her as she wears the exact hair, makeup and outfit he told her to wear.
It's always inspiring to see people improve themselves and show their accomplishments. Gives everyone a jolt for motivation. Highly appreciated mate.
Still doesn't help with the thread though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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