Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I know many of you don’t think it’s a good idea to date coworkers but you don’t count in this one.
I work in a warehouse house and am well liked by everyone. Most people know my name even though I don’t know everyone’s name.
This girl who has been working here for about a year. The first thing I noticed is she has the best bvtt in the world but gradually I came to realize she is just all around adore. She is kind of shy. Last week I was moved to her department so I have been able to converse with her more. It was eating me that I needed to ask her out because rejection is better than regret.
Once I was able to get her alone I asked if I could take her to lunch one of these weekends. I couldnt think of anything better ideas. I brace myself for the rejection I experienced many times but she said yes. It won’t be this weekend because I already volunteered to work overtime and she has her kids to take care of. I have a place in mind but not a day.
I will keep you updated but I welcome advice.
Not Amazon though I used to work at one.God forbid you ever find yourself working at an Amazon warehouse, but plate spinning there would be very easy. Worked at one for over 3 years.
One I worked at had hundreds of women to choose from. Constant turnover rate too.Not Amazon though I used to work at one.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well I have not been pestering her. I only brought it up 3 times is 7 weeks. My way of playing it safe. But yes, I am starting to get the feeling that it may not work.I wouldn't sh*t where you eat, been there done that, things can turn ugly in a heart beat, you keep pestering her she could turn things against you saying you're harassing her. Women always win in HRs eyes, you will be out of a job and with a bad record.
In before dude becomes the Harvey Weinstein of the workplace.I know many of you don’t think it’s a good idea to date coworkers but you don’t count in this one.
I work in a warehouse house and am well liked by everyone. Most people know my name even though I don’t know everyone’s name.
This girl who has been working here for about a year. The first thing I noticed is she has the best bvtt in the world but gradually I came to realize she is just all around adore. She is kind of shy. Last week I was moved to her department so I have been able to converse with her more. It was eating me that I needed to ask her out because rejection is better than regret.
Once I was able to get her alone I asked if I could take her to lunch one of these weekends. I couldnt think of anything better ideas. I brace myself for the rejection I experienced many times but she said yes. It won’t be this weekend because I already volunteered to work overtime and she has her kids to take care of. I have a place in mind but not a day.
I will keep you updated but I welcome advice.
Warehouses are a diff story though. I worked at various ones over the years, before I landed an actual money-making career. In short, everyone screws everyone, and all the in the know guys know who the easy prey are. Hell, some of the women there would screw the supervisors. Warehouses are a diff environment man, esp the graveyard shift. Proceed OP.In before dude becomes the Harvey Weinstein of the workplace.
She is really loving all your attention while she puts you in orbit.Ok well I was able to talk to her today, not as easy as I got promoted and am in a new department. Anyway as we left I told her to have a nice weekend and she asked how I liked my new job. Then I asked her when she thought we could go out. She said she didn’t know as this weekend she is taking her girls school shopping as school is starting and she usually spends weekends with them. Could be blowing me off but I believe her.
So I am not giving up on her but I will put it off a while and try other girls in the meantime.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.