"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Job status and dating.

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EyeBRollin

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So on match I had a chick who liked me and replied a couple times and then asked about the small business I owned and then after I told her about it she unliked me. She had a couple kids.

Was she looking for a guy who's loaded to beta buxx?

So what should you do when asked about your career to beef it up more? What is the best way to go about it early on?
Wrong approach. If anything should want to downplay your career. Keep it vague:

Doctor - “I’m in the medical field”
Engineer - “I work with numbers”
Entrepreneur - “I work in the <business type> industry”

She only gets the right to learn more over time. Reveal too much and you subject yourself to speculation about your income and assets. Reveal too little and you’re a sketchy, unemployed bum that lives with his mom.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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zinc4

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There are a few... maybe 1 in 1000. I certainly would put J.Lo in that category 10-12 years ago.
I have banged some very hot 38 to 39 year old yoga workout obsessed chicks.
 

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Traveling is what makes them broke lol. Trips they can’t afford.
Lol this is definitely true. Not to mention they have a Louis Vuitton habit and other shyt they buy like makeup is so expensive. A lot of females try to outdo each other when it comes to shopping and travel . These days they want the most likes on Instagram.... so they go places like Bali.
 

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Lol this is definitely true. Not to mention they have a Louis Vuitton habit and other shyt they buy like makeup is so expensive. A lot of females try to outdo each other when it comes to shopping and travel . These days they want the most likes on Instagram.... so they go places like Bali.
They can suck some sugar daddy c0ck if they need to. Or just get a plain old chump to pay for it.
 

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Lol this is definitely true. Not to mention they have a Louis Vuitton habit and other shyt they buy like makeup is so expensive. A lot of females try to outdo each other when it comes to shopping and travel . These days they want the most likes on Instagram.... so they go places like Bali.
Yea them stupid hand bags. At the market we have a vendor who would cry during the summer she couldn't order product cause she was broke yet bought a 1000 hand bag. Her business if its stocked properly makes good money too. Always keeps stock low but buys expensive toys instead of keeping her business healthy.
 

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I've been off & on unemployed since age 31 :eek: o_O, but that's when I gave up on American women.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Could be because you're from Europe. Over here in North America everyone is obsessed with what your career is. On OLD profiles many women, at least more age appropriate like mid 30s place a lot of focus on career in their profiles and "financially stable" "financially secure" "career minded" etc in their profiles.

I'm not making it up. They will ask you about your career in messages.

A girl in their early 20s doesn't give a damn. Older women in their 30s seem to do.
This doesn't make sense. An older women should be desperate, and thus can't be choosy.
 

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Wrong approach. If anything should want to downplay your career. Keep it vague:

Doctor - “I’m in the medical field”
Engineer - “I work with numbers”
Entrepreneur - “I work in the <business type> industry”

She only gets the right to learn more over time. Reveal too much and you subject yourself to speculation about your income and assets. Reveal too little and you’re a sketchy, unemployed bum that lives with his mom.
Or the catch-all - "I'm a consultant". (LOL, that's what I put on my 1040 form.)
 

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Or the catch-all - "I'm a consultant". (LOL, that's what I put on my 1040 form.)
In my profile I beef my small business up to make me sound bigger and more successful. When I did that I noticed my reply rates got higher.
 
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