is the job profile of a diplomat considered attractive and of status around the world? I guess diplomats get more exposure to different women fo different countries through parties, events, and general tourism in the posted country..Do women view diplomats just as they view high-end lawyers?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Job of Diplomats..
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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The travel can be a attractor, but remember you're being trained to be non-confrontational. You're in the business of being bland, and the old expression goes "you are what you do".
fortunately that's a plus for me..all the necessary arrangements are done by the government itself. Being an Indian diplomat doesn't require money..just requires extreme talent..30 people get selected from 1000000 candidates by UPSC
ya..although the Indian foreign policy has become DYNAMIC in the past few years..I hope the trend continues..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Who knows? It likely depends on the woman. Some may find it mysterious since he likely has a lot of things he can't discuss with others, or that they are able to talk to powerful people or are involved in politics, etc.