is the job profile of a diplomat considered attractive and of status around the world? I guess diplomats get more exposure to different women fo different countries through parties, events, and general tourism in the posted country..Do women view diplomats just as they view high-end lawyers?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Job of Diplomats..
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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The travel can be a attractor, but remember you're being trained to be non-confrontational. You're in the business of being bland, and the old expression goes "you are what you do".
fortunately that's a plus for me..all the necessary arrangements are done by the government itself. Being an Indian diplomat doesn't require money..just requires extreme talent..30 people get selected from 1000000 candidates by UPSC
ya..although the Indian foreign policy has become DYNAMIC in the past few years..I hope the trend continues..
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Who knows? It likely depends on the woman. Some may find it mysterious since he likely has a lot of things he can't discuss with others, or that they are able to talk to powerful people or are involved in politics, etc.