is the job profile of a diplomat considered attractive and of status around the world? I guess diplomats get more exposure to different women fo different countries through parties, events, and general tourism in the posted country..Do women view diplomats just as they view high-end lawyers?
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Job of Diplomats..
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The travel can be a attractor, but remember you're being trained to be non-confrontational. You're in the business of being bland, and the old expression goes "you are what you do".
fortunately that's a plus for me..all the necessary arrangements are done by the government itself. Being an Indian diplomat doesn't require money..just requires extreme talent..30 people get selected from 1000000 candidates by UPSC
ya..although the Indian foreign policy has become DYNAMIC in the past few years..I hope the trend continues..
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Who knows? It likely depends on the woman. Some may find it mysterious since he likely has a lot of things he can't discuss with others, or that they are able to talk to powerful people or are involved in politics, etc.